Relationships Thoughts

·        Signs he is a player

·        Is he playing me?

·        Signs of true love

·        How to make your man wants you more.


You are made for true love. Not for some man-child who only wants one thing from you. You are real and you deserve the same.
Let’s discuss about those signs that declares him a player or if he is really in love with you. If he is then you must know some key factors of making your man wanting you more.

 

 

v The Relationship revolves around Sex

having some sexual chemistry and spark is essential for any relationship but what is more important is the love and respect you both have for each other. A long lasting relationship requires both the physical and emotional aspect. If there is only sex, then you must really need to think about it.

v He seems very nice to you in Private but he is on contrary in public

usually he is acting sweet and affectionate when you are together but he keeps himself on distance when he is in public. If there is this big difference between his private and public behavior, then this is a sign that he is not right for you.

v He always hides his phone

this is the absolute best way to recognize a player. If he never leaves his phone lying around or has a security code and doesn’t willing to share it with you and always puts his phone off when he is with you then that’s an alarming sign.  

v He keeps himself on distance when there are other women around

If he is more distant when other women around, then this is again not a good sign. It doesn’t mean that he wants something from them but a player is always a player. It’s in his nature to flirt always. They don’t want others to make it clear that he is madly in love with you.

v He pays a lot of attention to his appearance

Does he pay more attention to his looks than you do? It’s because cheating men often pay more attention to their appearance because when feel available or hunting for other women they do their best to look good.

v He is Shady

A player will always hurts your feeling by his dishonesty and shady behavior. When you start thinking about it you came to know that you know nothing about this man and you have less information about his whereabouts.
If he is constantly on his phone when he is with you but when you call him it is always out of service or he simply doesn’t answer your call.

v He is not consistent

When a guy is playing you, you never know where you stand with him and what to expect from him the next day.

You simply feel like you are living with two different people, one day he treats you like you are his love for his entire life and the next day you feel like you stands nowhere in his life, he starts behaving like a completely different man.

v You are not one of his priorities

There are times when you realize you are an option and not a priority. You feel like you are always waiting for him to text you first, it feels like he puts everything ahead of you. His family, friends, colleagues, sports mate each one of them comes first. The truth is you will never be his only priority. He might concentrates on his work, or spending time with his family or seeing his friends.

v He won’t make long term plans

He won’t talk about your future together. While you may want to start planning trips as a couple and likes to talk about your future plans, dreams and goals. But he shows zero interest in it.

v He forgets details about your life

He forgets what you do for a living, when is your birthday. Where do you used to live, your interests, hobbies you likes and dislikes. He just doesn’t remember any details about you.

v He’s secretive about you

you always feel like he is keeping you a secret from everyone else.

So these were the few signs to make it clear for you that he is playing you or he is a player only.

 

Let’s talk about the positive side now. Here we are going to discuss about few signs that he truly loves you and if not, then how you can make him fall for you and wanting you more.

You deserve a guy who is truly in love with you. If he is not you might want to ask yourself if he is really the one you want to be with. Here are a few signs to look out for.

§  You can be yourself around him

If your man truly loves you he will always value you tastes, your likes and dislikes and your preferences. You will feel yourself a free bird with him. You won’t hesitate in telling him your interests and passion.

§  He is not afraid to show his love for you

A man who truly loves you won’t ever hesitate in telling you how he feels. He will show his love by his words, his gesture, physical intimacy, gifts, his care and concern for you.

§  He wants to be a better man for both of you

When a man loves you he wants to be the best man he can possibly be. He will make an extra effort to look good, smell good and behave well.

§  He keeps trying to make you happy

If he wants to make you happy more than anything then what else you might want from him?
A man who is truly in love with you will always care about your feelings and would do every possible effort to bring smile on your face.

§  He proudly introduces you to his family and close friends

If he truly loves you he is proud to tell the world you are his woman and he will proudly introduces you to his family and friends. This is a sign that his intentions with you are pure and he really wants to you to be a part of his life and he is serious about your relationship and your future together.

§  Accepts your flaws

Nobody is perfect, we all have flaws and that’s what makes life exciting. When your partner cherishes not only your good sides but also your bad ones is a sign that you are precious to him.

 

§  He would give-up anything just to be with you

If a man truly loves you, he will do anything he can to keep you around. The wrong one will find you in peace and leave you in pieces, but the right one will find you in pieces and lead you to peace.

§  He lifts you up when you are down

A man who loves you believes in you, when you do something great he is genuinely happy for you. Life brings ups and downs, when you are going through some tough times or life treating you bad he would stand by your side always. He won’t leave you alone ever.

 

 

Now let’s talk about those factors by which you can make your man wanting you more. There are several do’s and don’ts.

DO’S:

 

·       Surprise him by your walk, your talk and your dressing.

·       Ask him out for a date.

·       Keeps him satisfied in bed.

·       Give him moral support.

·       Show him that you have a life of your own.

·       Do not take him for granted.

·       Be a good listener.

·       Find things you both love to do.

·       Show your affection.

·       Say sweet things that can make him smile.

·       Always be expressive.

·       Make him feel desired.

·       Encourage him.

·       Pay attention towards his attraction.

 

 

DON’TS:

 

 

·       Don’t be too easy to get.

·       Don’t be eager to please him.

·       Don’t be clingy and needy.

·       Don’t ever get too comfortable, you can be replaced.

·       Don’t be a negative person.

·       Don’t ever compare your partner to an ex.

·       Don’t assume him.

·       Don’t ever react over emotions.

·       Don’t expect him to be a mind reader.

 

Final Thoughts:

 

Ideally, you want a relationship to be a life-long partnership, along with the two of you. You adapt to the changing needs of one another. Together you can have much more than you can as individuals. It can be very easy to fall in love but to keep this love alive what requires more is your time, respect, your care and mutual understanding. These are the factors that are really helpful to make your relationship stronger. We all have flaws and differences, but to handle those differences is more important. If you love someone accept him with all his flaws and keep understanding those differences will make your relationship a life-long thing.